9. Ambitious girls know that being tough and being emotional aren't mutually exclusive. Ambitious girls are strong, confident, and intelligent. They know how to handle themselves. But they're aware that that doesn't mean they can't be vulnerable or emotional. One of the reasons they feel comfortable dating is because they know how to be tough without feeling the need to apologize for having emotions.
有追求的女生明白,堅強和感性并不相互沖突.她們堅強,自信且理智,知道如何處理好自己的事情.但是她們也清楚,這些不代表她們不能有脆弱和感性的一面.她們堅強的同時,也不必為脆弱而受責(zé)備,這是她們舒適戀愛的原因之一.
10. A good conversation in their eyes doesn't revolve around how much money you make or how successful you are. They're more interested in hearing what makes you tick, what inspires you, what gets your blood flowing, and what you're passionate about.
在她們看來,良好的交流不必圍繞著對方的金錢和成功.她們更在意對方的動力,靈感,能量和熱情之所在.
11. They know that sometimes they have a hard time opening up in the beginning. They're used to being in control, so when they're not, it's a little disorienting. But they enjoy the challenge of trying to get better, so it's something they're always keen to work on.
在開始一段感情時,有時她們會覺得難以敞開心扉.因為她們習(xí)慣一切都在掌控之中,而愛情這件事卻充滿未知,所以她們會有些迷茫.但她們很享受自我完善的過程,并愿意為之全力以赴.
12. They won't ask you to choose between them and your other priorities, because they're too busy having priorities of their own.
她們不會逼你在愛情和其他重要事情之間做出選擇,畢竟她們有太多重要事情來充實自己.
13. Ambitious girls are attracted to people who have goals and aspirations – people who want more than an average existence. They don't need you to be the CEO of a Fortune 500 or an insanely successful entrepreneur. They just want to know you care about something that matters and are willing to work for it.
有理想有抱負(fù)、不甘平庸的人會贏得這些女生的青睞.對方無需是財富500強公司的CEO,也不必是特別成功的企業(yè)家.她們只要了解,對方有自己在意的東西,并愿意為之奮斗就夠了.
14. They're not going to wait forever. They'll let you know, one way or another, that they like you. They're never in a rush to jump into a relationship, but they're also practical about where they are in their lives and when it's time to move on. If you like them, do something about it.
她們可不會一直傻等.若是動心,她們一定會用某種方式表現(xiàn)出來.面對愛情,她們不會輕率莽撞就開始.同時,她們也很現(xiàn)實,知道自己處于人生的什么階段,知道什么時候該放手向前.所以若對她們有好感,請有所行動.
15. They're less worried about a fairytale romance and more concerned with finding someone who will simply make them happy. They're not preoccupied with a huge diamond ring, an over-the-top wedding, and a ridiculous love story they can tell their friends. They just want to be with someone who will love them for who they are, and never ask them to stop following their dreams.
相比童話般的浪漫舉動,她們更在意簡單的快樂.她們并不癡迷于碩大的鉆戒、奢華的婚禮或是可以向朋友炫耀的瘋狂壯舉.她們只求相守的那個人愛的是她們真實的樣子,并永遠(yuǎn)支持她們的夢想.
